Guys: Have you ever let "The one" go because of your friends influence?

Guys: Have you ever let "The one" go because of your friends influence?
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answer:Those who need appeasement in order to have a relationship with you are neither friends nor deserving family. Their reasons for giving unwanted advice are much less important than why you have been so easily swayed. We educate, understand and fortify ourselves only. The rest is a waste of time and energy.
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