Can you give me any advice on how to handle doing something awful to someone else?

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I wish you could talk to my daughter. She’s a high school history teacher & had this happen last year in one of her classes. It involved 3 kids. It caused a HUGE stink, of course. But she didn’t let it go, & neither can you. These kids need to be taught self dicipline & integrity.

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