answer:I tend to agree with the negativity theory. Of course, bad things can and DO happen to ‘good’ people, but..in my experiences, I have no doubt that I have manifested much of what I have enjoyed in my life by the power of positive thought and a spiritual trust. I really don’t beleive in ‘unluckiness’, I beleive that s—t happens, and it is all about how one deals with it, looks at it. I know that what I might have considered, at the time, to be some of my most ‘unlucky’ or unhappy moments have actually been foreshadows of some amazing outcomes! :-)