answer:Can you just grill them and sprinkle them with big breasted hookers, sports cars, and marijuana? Seriously though, just from watching my girlfriend: She used some bourbon seasoning with real bourbon, boiled them for some time, marinated them and then grilled them with wood chips under the ribs in the grill. That probably didn’t help, but I know you’re supposed to boil before you grill. That made them very tender and soft. I don’t even like ribs but I liked hers.