answer:My wife. Not that I did anything to deserve it. Quite the opposite. I did everything I could to drive her away, but she understood that I was in trouble, and she made sure I got help. She’s the first one I talk to about any problem, with my job, or the kids, or the home. Whatever. She’s the one I tell all my shit to. Anything that bothers me. But I wouldn’t expect anything else. Isn’t that part of why you get married? Solve problems together?