answer:Personally, I’m of the opinion that people should have genuine reasons that they love their partner, rather than “just because” or “I don’t know why”. To me, saying either of the former suggests that there’s no substance behind the feelings, and it makes love feel cheap. I asked a similar question on fluther before, and I was absolutely in the minority in holding this opinion – but that may have changed since then, I don’t know. Knowing why, having standards, and falling in love with a person because they meet or often times exceed expectations is what gives love substance – in my reality. I’m uncomfortable with even saying “I love you” to another person, unless I know clearly and distinctly, why I feel that way. Without reasons, it’s not my definition of love.