answer:It sounds like you are feeling a little bit of anxiety and depression and “love sickness.” You are clearly in love with this young lady and she doesn’t feel the same way about you. This, my friend is what drives every good love song that has come down the pike from time immemorial. Since she doesn’t feel the same way about you, your best bet is to back off from her little by little (don’t drop her like a hot rock, because she’s probably a nice person) But if you continue to hang around with her, it is likely that you will not soon get over her, and you might make her eventually get sick of you acting all lovey-dovey around her (even though you might not even realize that you are doing that). You can still be friends with her, just limit your time and communications with her. In the meantime, start doing more things with your other friends (male and female and in groups) that you don’t love in that way. Do things that you like, go to places that are of interest to you and you are likely to meet some new young lady that will hopefully feel the same way about you. Life is a crapshoot, you can’t control how you will feel about any particular person, or how they will feel about you. But it’s usually best to avoid putting yourself continually into a situation where you know the other person (this particular young lady) doesn’t feel the same way about you. And you will likely get better results if you go about your business doing things that you already like and that are important to you, and where you know there will be other people around that are likely to have common interests and common goals. In other words, swim in the pool that has the type of fish that you are looking for. Even if you don’t hook one, you’ll still be enjoying yourself and doing what is important for you.