answer:I’d never go to a strip club, yet alone sit through three acts, but if I were the subject laid out in your scenario, I’d mind my own business. You don’t know the back story of the other three and wouldn’t tell their parents, so I’d go with the same rule for the fourth. It seems she made a mistake talking to you and confirming her true identity, which making decisions like that is probably what led her to a life of stripping after she realized that Johns Hopkins won’t be calling to follow up on her application anytime soon, here. I’d also not tell because I wouldn’t want my neighbors to know I frequent strip clubs, so that’s a muted bonus.