How do you teach someone to be more socially able?

How do you teach someone to be more socially able?
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answer:Welcome to Fluther! Being a ‘gamer’ has nothing to with the boyfriend’s anti-social skills, other than a possible effect. Yes, he can be taught, but it is up to him to want to learn. He would first need to understand how his behavior is perceived by others. If he doesn’t understand the reason, or worse, doesn’t see the benefit, then there is little that you can do.
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