How should I deal with my father in this situation (see details)?

How should I deal with my father in this situation (see details)?
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Why is there any need to Deal. You just live your life as usual and respond to any comments from your father in a cool, calm manner. No need to justify your own position. It is what it is. That is all there is to it.
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