Well, this has basically just happened to me anyway. I know chances are I’ll hardly ever see this guy again. My feelings changed before our last meeting anyway, so there wasn’t much point in telling him anything. But even if they remained the same, I most likely still wouldn’t have said anything, just out of fear of his response, or possibly fear that the romance I’d imagined to be so amazing between us might just let me down in reality. I kept it a secret for a year anyway, so it wouldn’t hurt to keep it secret for another few decades or so, I suppose!