On a trip to China, one lady in our group had the job of being the first to use an untried (by us) ladies room. We had 5 things we looked for: cleanliness, toilet paper of some kind, soap, hot water, something to dry hands on. When she came out she’d indicate with her fingers how many of the amenities there were in that particular washroom. A high 5 was a rare joy. We were visiting a hospital and after a long meeting, with tea, we were all in line. She came out with a big high 5 and we all grinned happily. Seeing our long line, a very sweet nurse beckoned to the last 4 or 5 of us to follow her. We did. And she led us downstairs to “toilets” were just a hole in the ground. A no finger place. What a disappointment. She was just being nice so we wouldn’t have to wait so long.