answer:I very much like the fourth topic for this question. If you’re using iTunes on your iPad, are you logged into your own account, or is it your daughter’s? I think all you should need to do is delete all songs you don’t want, either through iTunes (if that’s what you’re using) or some file-browsing software – as I don’t think you have Finder on an iPad, right? This support article on the apple site tells you how to physically delete files in iTunes 10, which is probably what you’re looking to do. There shouldn’t be much difference in older iTunes versions.