When kids are caught misbehaving why does the first reaction tend to be to think they need to be hit more?

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Because it seems like a simple, easy answer to the problem. Rather than having to get at the root of the problem, why not go with the easiest answer? Also because when people read “shocking” stories like that, their reaction is knee-jerk.

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