Is pleasure a state of being, or the passage from one state to another?

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Depends on what you’re experiencing at the time. If what you’re experiencing isn’t pleasant, then relief from that could be pleasure. For example, working in god awful heat, then getting a break in the shade with some tepid water would seem like pleasure. But if what you’re experiencing is nice, pleasure is the state of being. I was thinking of laying in the arms of your lover. That starts out nice and just stays right there for as long as you get to do it.

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