answer:This is a tough one. All your responsibilities are important and of course you want to meet everyone’s needs as best you can. Reality is, you probably can’t. So you’re going to have to determine some priorities. It would seem your job has to come first or you won’t have any income. Does your boyfriend live near your work? I know you said he lives an hour away from you? Is your work in the middle? If your relationship is serious and you see it as a long term thing, can you move in with him? I know you live with your Aunt and Grandmother but you didn’t say they are totally reliant on you? Can none of your other relatives help out more? I understand you said they’re spread about a bit but surely you can all get together and create a roster so it isn’t all falling on you? And do you love your job? Is it what you want to do? If not, yes, start looking for something else, but if it is what you want to do, you need to find a way to make this work. Can you do a job share thing with another member of staff? Not the other manager, but is there a responsible junior member of staff who can step up and manage one day a week? Even if you have to take a slight drop in pay to fund that? The time might be more valuable.