Have you ever "trained" or "reprogrammed" yourself to stop saying or doing a certain thing that you habitually do/say?

Have you ever "trained" or "reprogrammed" yourself to stop saying or doing a certain thing that you habitually do/say?
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Get a rubber band. Put it around your wrist. Snap yourself with it every time you catch yourself doing the Bad Thing.
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