Ever had to walk away from a parent or sibling because of their behaviour?

Ever had to walk away from a parent or sibling because of their behaviour?
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I will be following this @JackofHearts, as I have some serious long-term issues with a family member. Thanks for asking. GQ. Sorry I can’t answer this, myself.
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