How can I deal with my parents insulting me because I am asocial?

How can I deal with my parents insulting me because I am asocial?
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Being an introvert is 100% normal. (70% of the time I’d rather be alone so I feel you there) This sounds like my post high school college years. FYI all of my high school friends who partied and slept around did zilch with their lives…nada. Your parents are being too harsh, you sound more mature than they do. I doubt they realize how they are making you feel though. You sound hyper normal which is a very…very good thing. If you are having feelings of hurting yourself please see a counselor ASAP. That’s not anything to mess with and simply talking with someone can make you feel much better. Positive thoughts headed your way!
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