Is there ANY way the woman that just had octuplets did a GOOD thing?

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She made it easy to find out who’s a crazy person. And it probably highlights the need for regulation of IVF, since what she did would be illegal in Europe. Probably helped Angelina Jolie figure out who to adopt next. She just needs to make one of her babies look “ethnic”.

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