Does she have a right to be mad at me?

Does she have a right to be mad at me?
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Umm…why would anybody be denied the right to be angry? That’s just ridiculous. Anyways, if she hasn’t responded and you think she’s mad, don’t see her as a friend any more. That’s all you should get out of this situation. She has every “right” to be mad at you. You just might not think it’s right for her to be mad at you, but it’s worthless to worry about this. You are being passive agressive too, by the way. Perhaps she has the “right” to feel mad at you, then.
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