Which is worse for you, when a good friend moves away, or losing touch with a good friend who lives right near you?

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answer:Letters always help when someone moves away (or email or cards or phone calls). As to losing a good friend who lives near you still, that is very painful. The reminder each time you go into their neighborhood or by their house.

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