Ladies, have you ever been rejected when you've asked a guy out on a date?

Ladies, have you ever been rejected when you've asked a guy out on a date?
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answer:I’m no lady, but seeing that there are no taker to your question so far, let me say that way back when these things still happened to me, I did reject a few gals who asked me out. We’re not obliged to date whoever wants to date us, are we?
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