First date question?

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answer:Seriously, @Londongirl. Ask him. I have no idea what he meant when he said he liked your top. Were you wearing some nice top? Did it show cleavage? I am also confused, but maybe it’s a spelling error. Did you mean to write “an awful or a nice surprise?” If you want to talk to him, then text him. Don’t wait. If you play that game you’ll lose. If you do what you want to, you might win. That is to say, you make a nice friend. I wouldn’t think beyond that yet.

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