1. Next time your father is in a violent rage, call 9–1-1. Call them overtime he starts to go off on one of you. 2. Start preparing to move out as soon as possible. When your dad is not around, have your mother call a battered women’s shelter. They will know how to talk to her and how to help her. The only way to “end” this is to get out of it as soon as possible. And once apart from your father, do not let him back into your life until he has demonstrated he has been to long term counseling and anger management.