That sounds pretty funny to me. just the thought of thinking i love someone romantically and they don't feel it? really i think that's absurd. we all have fallen in love before, and am sure you will always feel something is going on, or is about to happen even without being told. There has got to be some kind of chemistry between the two parties, not unless you do not know each other. i hope i am making some kind of sense on this. Two people who know each other will definitely feel something towards each other, some kind of spark. How do you feel romantic towards someone whom you don't know, does that make any logical sense? Maybe we can say, you lust after someone, not being romantic towards them. Those are two different aspects, you can be lustful towards anyone if you have that kind of mind.