For me, it was a catastrophic drop in counselors in my immediate area. I was still diligently building, while my neighbors went to the eternal hunting grounds, or resigned themselves to everything. A friend directed me to an online counseling center, and for the first six months I mainly drew advice from others, but only occasionally did I formulate a question. Then I started to answer, gradually reached the TOP 25 and after another six months I left. Now I have severely limited activities, everyone will probably come to one ... :)