We are getting a post partum doula, any advice?

We are getting a post partum doula, any advice?
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answer:I’m not convinced that you are going to need the help as much as you think. Yes, having extra hands around is great, but you’ll survive either way, and to a certain extent, I think it is very useful to learn the ropes the “hard way.” When my wife and I had our first almost 2 years ago, we had help for about 1 week, and then everyone disappeared. That acute responsibility really forces you to learn how to work together and also how to care for and love your new child. As far as doulas are concerned, the one thing I have heard is that you really have to ensure that they share your parenting style. Having conflict over how to change diapers, cloth vs disposable, sleeping, breastfeeding (or not), swaddling, etc. can be very frustrating, so I would sort that out beforehand. Good luck with your upcoming arrival. My wife is due with our second in November as well. I tremble with anticipation.
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