Love life help please.

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answer:Remember: once a cheater, always a cheater. After you broke up with him, you should have completely cut any contact with him and had a clean break up. I know it’s hard to let go especially when it’s the first love but you would be doing yourself wrong by staying with him because you can get someone better and you also deserve someone better. This relationship is not for you, and it seems not for him either. He’s just wasting time with you till he finds someone else. Run, (don’t walk) away from him and break off the whole arrangement. Start fresh and go out there and find someone who will be good to you and treat you right. There are good guys out there, you just need to give it time. Good luck.

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