It’s hard to say what you should avoid without knowing what you would do, but here’s a few universal don’t-s: * Don’t suggest you can give her more time to get ready when picking her up for a date (it’ll suggest you think she looks terrible) * Don’t stare at her boobs when she’s talking if you plan on connecting with her for more than that * Don’t respond to “do I look fat in this”. Change the topic or use a standard, like: “You look great as always” (be consistent though, the slightest variation will be misinterpreted) * Don’t bring up ex’s for at least the first couple of months (no girl wants to be the rebound cure, second best or consolation prize) * Don’t lie to impress. Women often have a better memory than men when it comes to anecdotes and details. It will come back and bite you on the ass if you do.