How do I answer this question from an Ex Nosy Co-worker?

How do I answer this question from an Ex Nosy Co-worker?
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Why don’t you just bite the bullet and meet her for an hour at a coffee shop or diner or something (public!). That way she can give you the gift without coming to your house, and you can go on your way after that. It seems like she is going to be relentless until she either sees you, or gives you the gift. I hate when people I don’t really have anything in common with bug me like this. But I have found that a quick cup of coffee or lunch usually appeases them. It is uncomfortable for you, but wouldn’t it be more uncomfortable to have her keep bugging you?
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