I have always believed that we have thought patterns, a system of thinking that is different between all individuals, but can produce similar or identical ideas. Only that some patterns of thinking is more efficient than others, and that that is the difference of IQ. Which would mean that you can become better at thinking through changing thought pattern. Silly idea maybe. It seems that what you talk about here is EQ. I any case, I think it makes sense. Beautiful and ugly seems rather inappropriate descriptions though