Description : How would you feel if your spouse spent the night at her family's often?
Last Answer : I mean she gets bored cuz it’s just her and her husband so she visits all the time lol.
Description : Do widows/widowers that remarry still love their deceased spouse?
Last Answer : Perhaps this will help.
Description : Have you ever had the opportunity to cheat on your spouse or SO and turned it down?
Last Answer : Many times. Resisted temptation even though only slight. Too complicated can’t do with fallout no need to stray anyway
Description : Whats the ideal date you would take a spouse on?
Last Answer : The one that is preceded by my spouse cleaning the house, doing the grocery shopping, cooking the meal and cleaning up afterwards.
Description : How long did you know your spouse before you married?
Last Answer : 2 months
Description : Would you be mad at your spouse?
Last Answer : answer:I don't think I'd be mad. I would be a little sad, however. He was likely just being affectionate and it hurts if the feeling is not returned. I'd get over it quickly. Take this ... It is likely he would very much like to be touched that way and would never dream of rejecting your advances.
Description : What do you think of when you're searching for a reason to hope?
Last Answer : I listen to music. Right now, I’ve got an album of piano and violin duets playing.
Description : Is it disrespectful to meet another woman while you're on a date?
Last Answer : Disrespectful? That's really up to the woman who was on the original date. How did she feel? It's certainly rude and tacky, sort of a low-class thing to do. But what do we know about the original ... 's too much that we don't know about the personalities. But this seems like a rude thing to do.
Description : Is it okay to keep in touch with an ex if you're in a relationship?
Last Answer : I see nothing wrong with being friends or on good terms with an ex. And if your current SO has unwarranted issues with it, well it looks like you landed yourself with a controlling possessive bitch.
Description : Do you ever feel like you're at a crossroads?
Last Answer : answer:@yankeetooter I do understand your details. But, the question make me wondering. Im sorry your question is not really fit the concept to your details. My point is what do you means as ‘Do you ever feel like you’re at a crossroads?’
Description : How do you know when you're in love?
Last Answer : answer:Real love is when you want the happiness and success of the other person more than you want it for yourself. You don’t stay “in love” meaning the first chemical flush of love forever. It steadies into a warm, passionate glow.
Description : Would you keep a friend that continuously gives you empty promises when you're feeling low?
Last Answer : It’s hard, but sometimes you have to cut toxic relationships out of your life. However, it also sounds like they may be going through something too? You may just need to broaden your support system.
Description : Are you confident the person you're involved with wouldn't leave you if the money ran out?
Last Answer : Well, since we got together…he had a job, I didn’t, then he got laid off, I stayed…then I had a baby and neither of us worked, we stayed…now I work, he stays at home, so none of this really matters to us…
Last Answer : i dont have to tell her the money is on the nightstand, whatever her name is.
Description : Why do people care if being gay is something you're born with or something you choose?
Last Answer : The logic is: If you choose it, it's a moral issue, and reasonable people can be against moral issues. If you're born with it, it's more of a discrimination issue (sort of like race), so you ... t care, but those who wish to impose their own morality on others, care what you do on your own time.
Description : How do you know if you're in love with someone?
Last Answer : answer:My mom says “Love is more than feeling, it’s doing.” Your actions of love attest to “true love” much more than fleeting feelings ever will. I love my mom.
Description : If you're slightly intoxicated on a Friday because you have a night off from parenting and work what would you avoid saying on Fluther so people don't get mad?
Last Answer : I don’t drink, but I know drunken fluthering is a very popular pastime here. Enjoy!
Description : Do you ever actually think about physically hurting someone when you're mad, stressed, aggravated etc?
Last Answer : Nope. I’m a bit of a stoic when it comes to anger.
Description : Do you use off-topic (ad hominem) insults when you're mad at someone?
Last Answer : First of all, LOL!! At your description! Well, I’m sure I’ve done it before, but not about the overweight thing, I just insult them with a “dirty little secret” that I know of them. And if I don’t know any, I just cuss. Lots of fucks and hope you go to hell flying around.
Description : Are you sometimes happy when you’re mad?
Last Answer : Yes a lot
Description : What are some good ways to keep in contact with your boy/girlfriend/partner/spouse while you're away?
Last Answer : Setting up a blog seems an ideal option, doncha think?
Description : Do you think Jeffrey Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell were in "love"?
Last Answer : I think people can find love in mutual interests, whether good or bad. I’d see myself falling in love with someone that fought next to me. Their shared bond was obviously over playing chess with lives and political statehood.
Description : Is there a wall somewhere (Rome?) where people place slips of paper hoping to further their romantic dreams?
Last Answer : Perhaps it’s the Romeo & Juliet wall of love in Verona, Italy.
Description : Should the wife get back together with her husband?
Last Answer : I think it sounds like a really bad movie.
Description : I'm in love with my bestfriend, I'm often distracted while studying because I always want to talk to him, though we don't talk a lot of hours. Now my exams are arriving, shall I stop talking to him or not?
Last Answer : Wait til after exams to do anything. Cool it with the talking and thinking about him for now, study and pass your exams and then come back to it. Welcome to Fluther! Come back when exams are over and ask us again.
Description : What are the little things that you are thankful for?
Last Answer : Clean drinking tap water.
Description : Is human monogamous love detrimental in trait selection?
Last Answer : Maybe action heroes like spider man, and super man are good examples of this sort of story. Heroes could be lessons on mate selection.
Description : Which is harder for you to do in a romantic relationship, dumping someone or recovering after getting dumped?
Last Answer : Recovering.
Description : How do you deal with heartbreak?
Last Answer : I have 13 pages written in my journal. I hope I can read it to him. I talked with his friend for 2.5hrs trying to see if I can fix this and we are working on it…
Description : I am happily married to my guy, but I like one girl. I just want to tell that girl what I feel about her. I don't have her contact number except I know she is on Instagram. She is married too. Should I tell her about my feelings? How?
Last Answer : How can you really be in love with someone you have never spoken with? You can't. You are in lust and you have this fantasy of who and what she is built up in your mind. You may not be ... another woman, stalking her on Instagram, etc., you are mentally cheating. Stop it. It will not go anywhere.
Description : Can someone please help me understand this? I'm a white male, but for some reason I can only find people who are Asian, or look Asian attractive.
Last Answer : Go with it. It’s ok.
Description : Am I damaging my 26 month old grandson?
Last Answer : Now. He just thinks you’re magic. Gramps are supposed to be magic. He’ll ask when the time comes.
Description : Are you already preparing for post-pandemic life?
Last Answer : I am sending out the orgy invitations tomorrow.
Description : Can I please just thank my fellow jellies?
Last Answer : Glad you are walking toward the light :) (((((((((HUG)))))))))
Description : Do you want to share a love story with us?
Last Answer : Wonderful
Description : How has everyone been?
Last Answer : Just hangin.' Signed up for Medicare this year. Still on target to work 5½ more years before I take Social Security. My old 91 Nissan pick-up continues to run well with over 260,000 miles A/C still ... up, which is good since it was falling off for so VERY long Glad things are improving for you!
Description : What would happen most likely if the Earth and all its inhabitants have only three years to live?
Last Answer : A massive spike in crime rate, mainly murder and rape, and a complete collapse of economies and governments. Humanity will go down like a senile old man that shat his pants when he died, and decomposed in a pool of his own shit.
Description : What’s Eating Gilbert Grape?
Last Answer : Loved that film. Captured small town life quite well IMO. Most people feel like Gilbert at some point in their life. It can be soul crushing to be tied down and held back with unwanted responsibility through no fault of your own.
Description : What's your opinion about romantic love between siblings?
Last Answer : Absolutely none of my business as long as any consummation is consensual.
Description : Do you have any regrets?
Last Answer : I regret the burnt perm I had in the 80’s.
Description : What do you do that you absolutely love?
Last Answer : I absolutely love my art class, portrait drawing and painting. It has been wonderful for me. I’ve learned so much, and I can see real gains in my work.
Description : Has anyone noticed the tribute to Auggie at the top of the page?
Last Answer : It’s very sweet. I want to hand poor Dr Jelly a hankie.
Description : Would one of you techie folks be able to change Dr. J's hat to one that has the letter A on it, in honor of the late great Auggie?
Last Answer : And possibly change the candy cane to a whip?
Description : Should you love someone who is not financially stable?
Last Answer : Is that person stuck in that job forever? Can you support yourself (and potentially a family)? Is the person in the lower paying job because it's a non-profit that benefits the community? ... using this as the sole point of judgement is probably unwise, especially if the person is relatively young.