Can you be "in lust", yet have strong feelings for someone?

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Definitely. That’s usually how I’ve gotten to know my girlfriends. You see a girl/guy you like the look of, and you lust for them, you think they’re really hot. you then find out they have an amazing personality too, you don’t necessarily have to be in love to have strong feelings. Lust and Love/Strong feelings are two separate things.

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