I'm curious as to why it is viewed weird to not sleep in the same bed as your spouse.

I'm curious as to why it is viewed weird to not sleep in the same bed as your spouse.
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torture? maybe you should get a larger bed. i hate sleeping alone now, it is great to have someone next to you.
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