How did you (or do you) deal with being unemployed?

How did you (or do you) deal with being unemployed?
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Depression without work is very normal. I have heard that this is amplified in men as well. To deal with the depression it is very helpful to find something that makes yourself useful. A household project or volunteering locally can be extremely helpful ego boosters. In the meantime I suggest getting help revising the resume and cover letter. Finding at least one job to apply for each day. Those three things will make you feel like you are at least making some headway. In fact after I got some help revising my resume, which I thought was exemplary but I guess we can always use improvement, I got much more job interviews. Another thing I did was write notecards with interview questions on them and practiced answering them.
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