My grandpa has alzheimer's and its very bad. I wish he would die. Is it okay to feel that way?

My grandpa has alzheimer's and its very bad. I wish he would die. Is it okay to feel that way?
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There is nothing wrong with any of your feelings. I watched my dad die of Alzheimer’s and it is an ugly, horrid, fearful disease that robs you of your loved one before physical death intervenes. Your love is evident. Allow yourself to have your feelings. They seem appropriate to me.
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