Any tips on how I could just purge all the thoughts and memories I have about someone whom I've once loved very much..?

Any tips on how I could just purge all the thoughts and memories I have about someone whom I've once loved very much..?
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I gave you lurve for this because I am wondering the same thing, so I will be anxiously waiting for advice, too.
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