True depression is a problem with brain chemistry, and not something that can always be overcome or grown out of. Some people’s level of “naturally happy” isn’t good enough to lead a functioning life. Before getting on meds though, it’s important to try other changes, imho- diet, exercise, counseling, and other life style switches. When that’s not enough, why not take a pill? I think depression meds saved my life. I probably will be on them for the rest of my life. My options are likely be on them forever, or spend my life not wanting to do something as simple as getting out of bed. It’s a clear decision. Some people however, have situational depression and meds can be temporary. Emotionally, meds help me have motivation to do simple everyday activities most people take for granted- getting out of bed, showering, taking a walk, and bigger activities like going to school. They also make me much more pleasant to be around. The right dosage of meds don’t take away normal moods. People can still cry, have bad days, feel elated when something really awesome happens. Physically, they can subdue an appetite just a little (or a lot for some people). I can understand your parents’ concerns, and would recommend anyone get a second opinion before taking a drug that plays with brain chemistry. But when it comes down to it, true depression is an illness just like any other, and we are lucky enough to live in a time where it doesn’t have to be debilitating.