What are some of the things that, as a child, you wanted to be when you grew up?

1 Answer

Answer :

I wanted to be a ballerina just like every other little girl. Now i’m into forensics.

Related questions

Description : What are some things that you were ungrateful for as a child?

Last Answer : answer:Pretty much everything I was a kid! lol I think you have to learn to do without before you can know how good you have it. My parents were all about attaching strings. Nothing was ever given but ... reminded where it came from and what you had to do to keep it/make sure there would be more.

Description : Have you ever wanted to disown a relative?

Last Answer : Yes. Several.

Description : When your parent gets old enough to need assisted care, is it the responsibility of the child to give up their life and move back home and take care of them?

Last Answer : answer:It depends. If you want to, yes. If you do it out of duty, and resent them because you are doing it, no. If you have to put them in care, it's best to keep them in the same ... because so many of their children set them up and see to all their comfort and physical needs and then disappear.

Description : Did you try to "spare" family members when you were a child?

Last Answer : I only tried to spare them how bad I was.

Description : What book would you want your child to certainly read?

Last Answer : answer:The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings. We’re working on The Hobbit now. I also hope he takes a liking to Rudyard Kipling and eventually Poe and Lovecraft. They’ve been lifelong favourites of mine.

Description : Should a father make an attempt to contact his adult child?

Last Answer : answer:I like your plan, with one major addition. The very first thing he should do is tell his wife about this child, and the feelings he's having about getting into contact with her. FWIW, I had ... a good one nonetheless. He got to know me and to see his first grandchild before he passed away.

Description : Why do you think so much emphasis is placed on child abuse and not elderly abuse?

Last Answer : Children are the real innocents in our culture.

Description : Do you think it's crazy when parents don't feed their child dinner as a form of punishment?

Last Answer : If done regularly, it can be considered child abuse. I can’t imagine using that form of punishment.

Description : When court ordered child support ends, what do most people do after if the kids don't want to go to college?

Last Answer : answer:Tell them that, at 18, they must support themselves. That means get a job, go into the military (same as getting a job) or go to school. You are no longer financially responsible for them, and their mother should not be either.

Description : Do you secretly have a favorite ______? (child, sibling, parent, aunt.. etc)

Last Answer : Same for all .. if I’d start making favourites then I’d start making mistakes .. I hope I’ll never do them.

Description : Is it right to throw yourself a baby shower for your 4th child?

Last Answer : They can throw a baby shower. And you don’t have to do anything about it. Girl things are different than boy things, so it’s not totally crazy.

Description : How old is too old in a child for parents to walk around in underwear?

Last Answer : I don’t see any problem with that. My young children have seen me and their mother naked. We go swimming naked in a lake every summer, all four of us. And we regularly soak in a hot tub naked too. To be seen in underwear then is, for me, totally harmless.

Description : What relation would your cousin's child be to you?

Last Answer : Well this is hard to answer because one’d have to know if the cousin in question is a first, second or whatever cousin.

Description : Is it possible for two blue-eyed, blonde-haired people to have a dark-haired, brown-eyed child?

Last Answer : She might be adopted. That’s not a bad thing.

Description : Is there anyone among your blood relatives who have totally separated themselves and refused to speak to or see a parent, a sibling, a child, an aunt or uncle or cousin?

Last Answer : Yes. My grandmother's cousin left her kids one day and no one has heard from her since. She'd be dead by now. No one knows why she left. A few of my cousins refuse to speak to my sister, and my ... . We had to beg her to come see my mom before she died. I know lots of people with similar stories.

Description : Who would you chose, wife or child?

Last Answer : I would need more information. Why is she unconscious? How far along is the pregnancy?

Description : What do you miss most about being a child?

Last Answer : I miss the fact that I never even knew that people could judge me.

Description : What are some things your family could have afforded, but didn't have?

Last Answer : Hockey membership. My dad wanted me to have all my teeth.

Description : Why are some mother-in-laws controlling and always looking for negative things to say about their son's wife?

Last Answer : answer:Because they are bitter old bitches who feel they are owed something back for the time spent raising their boy. At least that’s what my Mom told me. love ya ma

Description : What should you do when a spouse keeps things from you?

Last Answer : answer:If it were my husband, I'd mention that I found the letter in his jacket pocket that night, and open up a conversation about it. There's no point in having him keep it from you, adding ... loving people in their lives more than more activities, and THAT'S what builds a sense of self worth.

Description : Do you enjoy helping your parents or spouse with the little things they can't do?

Last Answer : Well my parents are both dead and I no longer have a spouse, but I love to help others whenever possible. I just helped a friend plant her 1st little vegetable garden, tomatos, squash, cucumbers, ... a gardening type and was completely clueless. Things have grown like crazy the last few weeks. :-)

Description : Has anyone in your family died and made you change your attitude on things?

Last Answer : Ouch, that had some teeth in it. I learned that lesson the hard way when I was 12. You take absolutely nothing for granted, cherish your loved ones, cut your loved ones some slack, and I really learned the meaning of love.

Description : Things to do with dad before he dies?

Last Answer : answer:Having just lost a father in law, I’d avoid the ringtone. However: recordings of him telling stories would be great to have. Get a digital voice recorder, and just talk to him about normal stuff. You’ll like that stuff later.

Description : Why do things in your past seem larger than life, and bring you more joy or sorrow?

Last Answer : answer:Experiences in the formative years define individuals because they most often occur when said individual is still mentally developing and thus make a huge impression. Aside from that, I think you ... feelings as a measuring stick or a comparative for other similar events, feelings, and ideas.

Description : What three things reminds you of your father?

Last Answer : Aircraft carriers, Cuban cigars and Packard convertibles.

Description : Do you judge family or friends based on terrible/stupid things they have done?

Last Answer : Some people simply can't handle the truth about the people they call friends, and they are not really friends. If they turn away because of finding out about a past issue, they weren't really friends. ... some things about my family that might make a fake friend leave, but a real friend wouldn't.

Description : What is "hiding" inside you? A child that never grew up, a talent/skill waiting to burst out? An unfulfilled dream?

Last Answer : Motivation and a desire to work so I can make some monies!

Description : What would be the right age to tell a child that one of the parent he/she grew up with wasn't his/her biological parent?

Last Answer : Tell them early [as in, like 5 or 6] – but reassure them that they are loved and seriously reassure them that they are your child no matter what. Source: I was adopted.

Description : When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up? What do you do now?

Last Answer : Child: astronaut or jet fighter Adult: am Corporate Banker

Description : What are some stories of people from your childhood that grew up to do horrible things?

Last Answer : [deleted]

Description : What are some things that may be different about yourself if you grew up somewhere else?

Last Answer : I grew up in Arkansas and didn't learn what weed was until I was about 16. When I moved to California, my younger brother went to high school out here. Everyday he'd tell me about drug sniffing dogs that had ... the kids. It just blew my mind cause I never had to deal with that when I was a kid.

Description : What are some good practices for preventing family feuds when it comes to dividing up a relative's belongings when they pass away?

Last Answer : This should’ve been taken care of already with paper work. Good luck trying to control that situation, as it’s going to chaos no matter what you do. That is what the legal documents are for: to keep people in check.

Description : I'm 45 and I can't decide what I want to be when I grow up . . .

Last Answer : I am too. I am 40. You don’t have to have a trade or degree to be happy. You could get a list of every career and cross one off at a time. You are ahead of your peers who are $200,000 In student loan debt. You can learn lots on YouTube and online moocs.

Description : Why do I have to put up with their family?

Last Answer : answer:You have a choice: you can either put up with the granddaughter, or you can set a boundary and risk the friendship. But you cannot expect your friend to change without you setting a boundary and then ... I will leave. I want to spend time with you, not with her. And then honor your word.

Description : Mother told me to give up on Photography, so I can move out.

Last Answer : answer:Do you have a Petco store in your area? They have a dog / pet washing and grooming section, and they would not hire you under the table. A lot of startups do tend to pay under ... dealer - but you're going to have to grow into respectable employment. The right landlord would understand.

Description : How to cheer up?

Last Answer : answer:Go for a walk or a run. Try to distract yourself with a book or movie. If you’re going to watch a movie make it a comedy. Sorry about your family problems. I have some of my own and they suck to say the least.

Description : What was it like to have a father growing up?

Last Answer : I'll be interested to see how people interpret this Q. For me, it simply was, I knew nothing else, my Dad was always there. I am a Single mother by Choice, however, and my daughter has said ... , that our situation was normal for her, she never knew differently so she couldn't comment on the lack.

Description : Did you live up to your parents expectations?

Last Answer : No, I didn’t.

Description : Did you ever realize, when you became an adult, that the "love" you thought you were getting from your family when you were growing up was not love at all?

Last Answer : I think it's very true a lot of times because children's reality is what happens at home, and there's usually nothing to replace home. It's not until you get older and realize that other parents treat ... over. While this is not abuse per se, it does create a skewed environment to grow up in.

Description : Do you know what family member is coming up the stairs or opening the door just by the way they do it?

Last Answer : Yes, though the cat is much better at it than I am. I can generally guess. The cat always knows. He gets super excited when either of the boys comes home-he knows that means lots of love ... Usually because he already has the love and attention of the boys and because she's less interested in him.

Description : Who among us is homesick for some past abode? Who is perfectly at home right where they are now?

Last Answer : I miss Seattle. A series of circumstances long ago had me leave, but I still get very homesick for it. I am happy here, but I still think of the Northwest as home. Which, I suppose, is a bit odd, as I ... where I make it, so it's a movable feast. Except for my daughter, I'm not related to my family.

Description : Could I have some kind of support right now?

Last Answer : Ghost hugs I am not the most mentally stable person here but I am always available if you need to rant. You are never asking for too much when you are asking for support. Remember that.

Description : Do you think there should be some organized therapy group for the family, friends and children of people who suffer from depression?

Last Answer : answer:Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is not affiliated with Al-Anon, nor did AA start Al-Anon. You have a good idea, Why not start a support group in your community?

Description : Do you think that the recent tragedy in Broken Arrow Oklahoma involving the Bever family might finally give us some insight into the Columbine shootings?

Last Answer : answer:“They also said 3,000 rounds of ammunition were delivered to the home after the murders and the boys planned to use it to kill so many people they would become more famous than the Columbine shooters.” You would think ordering that amount would at least make somebody wonder.

Description : For those that have children. Why did you have them ? I really need some advice.

Last Answer : answer:My motivating factor was simply that I wanted them. Looking back, I kind of wish I’d had one more. If you don’t want any, then don’t have any, please. What does your husband say?

Description : I need to share some emotional stuff with my grandmother and I'm kind of unsure...

Last Answer : Are you going to have to mail the letter to your grandmother or does she live close enough for you to hand deliver it to her? I’m open to reading it and giving you some feedback. PM me if you want me to read it, @LeavesNoTrace.

Description : If you distance yourself from some family members do you begin to feel happy again?

Last Answer : Yes, I have relatives like that. Removing yourself from their lives is all you can do. You should not feel guilty.

Description : I need some advice on this situation?

Last Answer : answer:It's hard, but you need to tell your son you have your own life to live, and he has his. Your presence will not help him grow up any more than it has already, he is way too old to be ... on this. The conversation will not be easy, but you know what to do, since you are asking here on Fluther.

Description : What subjects do you not talk to your parents or some other very close family members about?

Last Answer : My thoughts. All the sicks things in my head.

Description : What are some of your family's traditions for the Christmas season?

Last Answer : My family and I always go Christmas Caroling, on the 20th and then we also see a holiday Broadway performance, Like Granny Dances to a Holiday Drum ( Cleo Parker Robinson), the Colorado Symphony, or the Colorado Ballet performance the Nutcracker