answer:I do’t quite understand. He is 6’ 1” at home and at school? Put parentheses around the who is 6’ 1”. Then I think I get your question. His height is making him selfconscious? Why should there be issues around bathing, buying clothes and eating? I understand that he may be awkward. How about finding him a therapist to talk to who will reassure him that he is simply ahead of schedule . What grade is he in. Are his parents tall? Did they hit puberty early? Has this issue been discussed with his pediatrician? Although it is not comparable, I hit my adult (female) height of 5’ 7” early and felt embarrassed and awkward. I slouched a lot. I wish that I had had someone to talk with, and now I’d love to be taller.