Do you find people with names like Star, Precious or Tray have a harder time in life as they grow or do you think it seems to make no difference at all?

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In school, I was called by my nickname, Archie. I think that alone accounts for a lot of the abuse I took. That abuse, of course, had an impact on my personality. Things may be different now, because so many names are daft.

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