Would I be a bad friend to not help her move?

Would I be a bad friend to not help her move?
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Not your apartment, there are 4 other girls that will be living there, so, no I wouldn’t feel bad about not helping. She does not have to clean the minute she moves in. She can wait for the other girls, who will be living there.
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