answer:Let him find his own way. We can’t change anyone, and it is wise to remember how hard it is to make changes in ourselves, let alone thinking we can change others. It is fine to offer help/advice if asked for, but everyone has to find their own way. A lot of people, younger and older have a hard time finding their place in life, work, and we have to free people to be themselves and accept them for who they are. If someone rejects your advice or suggestions that is their right and is nothing personal. Certain personality types have a harder time with self discipline and finding one thing to focus on and following through. Just be supportive and encouraging of his interests and if you find that you cannot stop feeling critical of him and just enjoy the things about him that you like then it is best that you let him go as a friend. Unless he is involved in extremely destructive behavior we all have to free others to be themselves, make their own mistakes and choices and refrain from judgment if they don;t do things the way you think they should. Don’t “should” on yourself, and especially not on others.