Aside from yourself, who are the most stressed people on fluther?

Aside from yourself, who are the most stressed people on fluther?
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I’m actually not that stressed, but I do worry about my fellow Jellies sometimes. Mostly male, mostly over 30, and, Wundy, I worry about you. Please don’t be offended by that, it’s meant as concern, never judgement. I’ve gotten to like you, you know!
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