Can you build your happiness on someone's hurt?

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Hmmmmmm….I’m still thinking…...Are we talking about an attempt at happiness, or actual happiness, because you couldn’t achieve actual happiness off another’s hurt, because it’s a generally accepted notion that happiness is also seeing others happy. But the only example I can think of is laying people off for a bigger bonus…..

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