Do humans naturally and inevitably reject happiness, perfection, and all that is good?

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Happiness does not lie in attainment, but in anticipation and projecting forward. It’s the planning, and preparation that really makes us happy. Daniel Gilbert’s “Stumbling on Happiness” discusses the psychological and neurological processes that happen to create “happiness.”

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