Are delusions as necessary to happiness as reality is?

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I too am obsessed with Criminal Minds. A friend of mine who doesn’t date much and is lonely once told me that she wouldn’t mind the loneliness so much if the “wanting to be loved” feeling would just go away. I think she thrives on the hope that some day she will be in love and be loved by a wonderful person. A delusion? Maybe, maybe not, but I think that is what keeps her positive attitude most of the time .

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