Shy people, when you meet someone new, what would make it easiest to feel comfortable talking to them?

Shy people, when you meet someone new, what would make it easiest to feel comfortable talking to them?
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wundayatta I’m not shy at all, so I don’t have an answer. I just wanted to say great question!
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