answer:Well, first of all I would take the direct approach and contact said cousin and ask him outright about the situation. If he either denies moving or taking the money, or, it seems he is evasive and you suspect he is lying. make a list of questions and use it as a script, stick to the biz. at hand, and watch to see if he attempts to deflect from the questions, watch for inconsistent answers, weak explanations, trust your gut. contact the attorney with your concerns and proof from the bank that the monies were moved or withdrawn from that account. If you do not feel satisfied with his explanations and the money is not accounted for in the estates assets then bring it to the attention of the estate attorney. Good luck, nothing like settling a family estate to bring out the vultures. I went through this some years ago, amazing what some people will do/try to justify in the name of greed. Bah!